so...not gonna lie...

When I look back at my dirty thirty made barely two weeks ago...I'm already sort of disappointed...Make a cross stitch?  Seriously?  Buy a dress?  For real?  I'm really quite upset...I already have plans to up my game for 40...

As for an update, I am beginning my work on my lame-ass dirty thirty.  I downloaded Pride and Prejudice for free on my iPhone through the Kindle app (shameless plug).  I plan to start reading it on the way to the Fabulous Food Show tomorrow.  Also, I have several lovees who are game for spending NYE 2010 into 2011 in NYC.  And, I have someone on the job for a fabulous Dave Matthews pilgrimage. 

What I have learned so far is that you can pick all of the experiences in the world, but they won't necessarily define you.  I think it is the experiences that choose us that define us...I still plan on working my way through the list, mostly because I am looking forward to what comes up along the way more so than checking things off...I'm pretty sure those are the events that will ultimately be far more impactful than anything I could have set out to achieve on my own...So, until then, I'll be hanging out with the chicas of P&P.  Expect an update...But last I remember, I really wanted to punch that Elizabeth Bennet in the face.